{"id":60321,"date":"2026-06-13T12:00:37","date_gmt":"2026-06-13T16:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shamusyoung.com\/twentysidedtale\/?p=60321"},"modified":"2026-06-13T11:38:23","modified_gmt":"2026-06-13T15:38:23","slug":"bad-vs-not-for-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shamusyoung.com\/twentysidedtale\/?p=60321","title":{"rendered":"Bad vs Not For Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I say all the time that horror and comedy are the two most personal areas of life in terms of taste. They both prey on expectation to make their impact. That&#8217;s why hearing your drunk uncle tell the same joke for the 50th time is exhausting instead of humorous. It&#8217;s why knock knock jokes are mentally draining by the time you hit adulthood, too. Same goes for scares. The first time I watched Jeepers Creepers 2 I immediately developed a fear of scarecrows that I haven&#8217;t fully shaken, but I won&#8217;t have a panic attack watching the same scene again and again because the novelty is gone. The only scare left is the residual fear from the first time I saw it. And it&#8217;s also why the &#8220;mirror scare&#8221; in horror movies just doesn&#8217;t really work anymore unless you throw in a misdirect. We expect it now as a culture.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Wish Upon&#8221; is a horror movie released in 2017 and it is atrocious. I say that affectionately because I LOVE bad horror movies. I think it&#8217;s a solid recommend for folks like me that like to see terrible writing mixed with a nonsense plot with a sprinkling of questionable acting choices. So when Red Letter Media covered it I was delighted to see my read of the movie was accurate in the eyes of some guys that I look up to and respect. I don&#8217;t typically care if I have the &#8220;right opinion&#8221; on things but it&#8217;s always a delightful sensation to me when my personal tastes line up with some people that I consider tastemakers. I also enjoy when I can confidently say that something is just bad because nowadays I avoid saying something is &#8220;bad&#8221; and substitute in the phrase &#8220;not for me&#8221; to avoid offending or debate.<\/p>\n<p>Some may argue against my resolute statement that the movie is just plain bad, and that&#8217;s going to happen no matter what. There&#8217;s a world full of opinions and not all of them are going to be matching or even reasonable. And at the end of the day, we&#8217;re all fallible. Someone might see something in a piece of media that others don&#8217;t. I, for one, think that the splatter work of Jackson Pollock is pointless and silly. I like my art to have something more intelligible to say. Art critics might see my opinion as uninformed and stupid. That&#8217;s fine. That&#8217;s because the work just isn&#8217;t for me. I find the game Mixtape to be pretentious and boring. It won over tons of critics regardless and that&#8217;s fine, because those reviewers just saw something different in the game that I didn&#8217;t. It just isn&#8217;t for me.<\/p>\n<p>I think it&#8217;s important to accept the superiority of the term &#8220;not for me.&#8221; For whatever reason, many people out there tie their tastes in media to who they are as a person. I think if you want to keep relationships healthier and life easier it&#8217;s just a better way to go. You can still hold strong opinions. I&#8217;ll still tell people I think Pollock is a hack, but I&#8217;m ready to hear how wrong I am from the few people out there who both care and hold a differing opinion. But I&#8217;m very ready to let them say their piece and follow it with a smirk and a, &#8220;Sorry, I just don&#8217;t get it but I&#8217;m happy to be wrong.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Pollock was a hack, though. Jeff Koons and Damien Hirst are, too. Fight me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I say all the time that horror and comedy are the two most personal areas of life in terms of taste. They both prey on expectation to make their impact. That&#8217;s why hearing your drunk uncle tell the same joke for the 50th time is exhausting instead of humorous. 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